Saturday, July 4, 2020

Suicide-is it the only option?

So today I’ll be talking about depression.


So what according to you guys is depression?


Is it a disease or a disability?


No.  From my perspective it is a state of mind which is somehow created due to stress and various other aspects. People face a lot of  issues in their life and stress at this point of time in the world is very common because people can get stressed about small things which play a very minimal role in our life but still people get affected by it.


Depression leads us to a basic virtual reality kind of experience in which we are always sad, nothing positive seems to happen to us.  


Mental health is prominently associated with depression. Not only adults but children and even the teens who have just started of with their studies and stuff are getting depressed and talking about it.  What are people usually upset about- marks, goals , desires. People usually get upset when they don't get what they were expecting for. People also get sad about love.


Love is a very small word of 4 letters but it also plays a major part in our life . Teens when they think they are in love, it is not always true in most of the cases, it is just infatuation which is a major distraction which leads us off track, but yes true love is also there not only for adults but for teens also. Children get upset about their breakups and all and while coping up with it, they have to struggle with the society demands as well. 


I never understand these society demands or rules or regulations, I wouldn’t say I disrespect them but to me it does not make any sense as to why do everybody has to think before doing anything that what other people will think about him or his work. 


This should be totally eliminated from our lives, we should be free enough to take all decisions in our life without worrying about the people whom we don't even know properly. 


Talking about a students life - it is not as easy as it seems. The student has to face many struggle ;  some on personal level and simultaneously they have to work hard on their professional front too and the same is with the life of the adults. It does not matter who you are- an actor, director , businessman or a professional who does his/her job.


Stress is always there because each and every human being according to me hopes to get recognition for the work they do and  when sometimes they don't get it, they become sad and depressed.


This particular year 2020 has not been a very good and positive year for all of us because of corona virus and the consequences we have to face because of it.


Talking about India or Indian cinema(Bollywoood).

It has suffered a substantial loss this year because of the most prominent and versatile actors Demise.


These type of things usually creates a major impact on people and this leads oneself to doubt his or her capabilities. What is suicide? It Is the last stage of a person when he or she looses full faith in life and thinks that there is nothing worth to live for and I am telling you when a person is going through depression, they loose their ability to judge or evaluate what is right or wrong and thus end up taking such harsh decisions such as suicide.


When people say that sad people commit suicide.  It is not true. Depression wont reflect on anyone’s face and we don’t have a test which will state depression + or something, it is a state of mind and it can totally be changed by some help and guidance. 


Mental health is one the most challenging aspects at this point of time because even small children are getting affected by this. 


And to be honest whenever you are sad or say depressed, you  would not be healthy.  A sad person always faces some or the  other health problem. 


All we have to do is look at the positive side of the things and I totally accept and agree, when there  is no positive or happy thing is available then only thing which comes in our mind is - what is the last solution to get rid of these problems. It is suicide.


A big NO! There is no bigger reason than having the will to live for whatever it takes because at the end nothing is more precious neither money nor materialistic things. Life matters more than anything.  When a person has a will to live, I can surely promise that he/she will surely find a way out of the problems but when the person gives up nothing can help. What do you think is the most common reason for death in foreign countries - it is nothing else but suicide.


In a nutshell, all I want to say is - suicide is not an option at all. 


A person can improve, reflect on mistakes and do anything in life if he/she lives. Being alive is a privilege because we don’t know how or when death can occur, so why don’t we live our lives to the fullest and be as happy as we can because remember If out of 100 thing 99 are negative things there will always be that one thing which will stop you from doing anything wrong and that thing will help you get success and achieve all the goals in your life. 


Life is not easy at all some or the other problem will always be there but we ourselves have to think that who will prevail in the fight us or our problems or issues. The talent of being happy is a great talent but the person who makes the other person happy is the best out of all .


All in all we should always be positive and help each and every person in our reach in whatsoever way we can. Together we can defeat anything and everything. So we should pledge to be happy  and spread positivity around the world.


Thanks for reading my article


By-

Yash Gupta 

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